Bittersweet

Ah growing up...

Why is it so difficult to say goodbye?

It sit at my computer in my cubicle at my new job, surrounded by the sounds of progress and professionalism. I type away at a project descripion, reveling in the information about groundwater and wells, the headphones digging into my ears, and the first strains of a familiar song enter my brain. It is a song by Death Cab for Cutie. I close my eyes and lean my head back and let me thoughts drift where they will. I am in college, freshman year, in the dorm room of a friend. He takes a cd from a case and places it in his computer's disc drive. The music begins and, almost instinctively we both fall at ease, sinking into uncomfortably hard chairs. It is my junior year. The Los Angeles sky threatens rain, my favorite weather condition. I pull my iPod from the depths of my bookbag, setting it to rest atop Complete Works of Shakespeare. The sounds of Death Cab enter my headphones, forming the perfect musical companion to grey, cloudy skies. I trudge uphill, across campus, toward home. The campus has been decorated for Christmas, one of the lovely things about attending a Catholic University. It is so beautiful it almost hurts. The chapel, its large, circular window surrounded by a lighted wreath, forms a foreboding shilouette against the contemptous sky. I pass a large Christmas tree, its ornaments shining and glimmering in the last light of dusk. I make the familiar turn past the building we called Gotham, three stories of stylized concrete and glass, steaming in the cool damp. I pass the residence of the Jesuits and reach my favorite vista. i gaze across the sea, take a deep breath of the cool, stormy air, and watch the threatening sky swirl and stir. I walk into my dorm complex, full of light and laughter. It is similar to an apartment complex, the kind kids like me could never afford. the center artium glows with orange light and the fountain plays and teases the light. Up one flight of stairs, across slate hallways, and into my door, emblazoned with holiday greetings. the warmth hits me, and the familiar sounds flood my ears. I pause Death Cab, and greet my roomate and best friend. I was not in the place where I was born and raised, but I was happy, content, accomplished; I was home.

Why can't I return there? Christmas reminds me of the freedom usually associated with the holiday. School would let out, finals finished, papers submitted. How did college pass so quickly? Why didn't I stop and enjoy it more often. I tried to. I would stop, like the night described aboved, and try to breathe it all in and save every feeling. But I knew, even then, that I couldn't. I sensed my own mortality, the mortality of the moment, even then. I can't say whether it tainted the experience or made it more beautiful and telling. Now I work in a job where much is expected of me. I write for the good of the earth if not the good of my soul. I will work on Christmas eve and the day after Christmas, New Year's Eve and my birthday. I will spend the majority of my time here. I leave, and my head is full of ideas and themes from the proposals I have written and not the justice involved in public policy creation or Richard III's motives behind killing his nephews. Life is different, yes, but better, worse? I don't want to make that distinction. Things are always better, things are always worse, things are just different. What is consuming my mind now is the knowledge that each progressive era had its place in my life but each one has ended. There is no going back.